Men and girls show their love and warmheartedness in several ways that, besides the rare ultra-sensitive male. So, love is often confusing for a girl occasionally. That’s as a result of the reality is that men and girls think differently.
"Yesterday, he was the best man in the world, and today he is a complete jerk. I just don't understand that," is a common, valid statement heard many times from all Women. That's because men are only human, So their feelings can also go up and down. This does not mean that they do not love you. The important part is what a man says and should be in alignment.
With that said, men exhibit a normal behavior that demonstrates their love for a woman.
1. HE LISTENS TO YOU (CLOSELY!).
Generally, women are much better listeners than men. To be frank, some men have absolutely atrocious listening skills.
The curious thing is that men will always intently focus on things of interest. So, when a man not only hears you but actively pays attention and intelligently responds – a skill called active listening – you can have confidence that he’s smitten.
2. HE IS NOT READY TO PERFORM SACRIFICE.
Making personal sacrifices is much easier when we do it for the person we love. In fact, men who are in love will feel hurt thinking about their woman being unhappy - especially if there is something we can do about it.
Like, making sacrifices for your happiness is one way a man demonstrates his love for you. He will almost always put you first, even if it means changing your plans or getting out of your comfort zone.
3. HE SHOWS VULNERABILITY (THIS IS AN IMPORTANT TOPIC).
As men being men, we are cautious to show any behavior that may be perceived by others as a weakness. However, in love, this intensely vile attitude often falls by the wayside - and we don't care.
If we are in love, we are more comfortable feeling weak and acting. The vulnerability will certainly give many appearances throughout the relationship - especially if we are only with you.
4. HE LOVES HOW YOU LOOK, EVEN ON YOUR “WORST DAYS”.
Remember how much effort we put into doing our best during those opening dates? for sure. We all want to look and feel good when meeting with a potential partner.
Then there’s the actual relationship. As we spend more time with each other, comfort levels build, and our need to impress declines sharply. We’re free to wander around in our pajamas, stain our shirts, and forgo the hair gel.
When men love someone, we’ll think a woman looks beautiful no matter the situation.
5. HE’S PROUD OF YOU (AND ISN’T AFRAID TO SHOW IT).
In love, a real man is not ashamed to say how proud he is of you.
Whether you are a wonderful mother, a hard worker or to reach your goal, you can be sure that your efforts will not fail. Truly, all the commendable work you have done and are working for us, providing us with pride and happiness.
On a related note, we are not (very) upset about losing you. If you are both very competitive people, then maybe he is a little bit crushed after a quick defeat! (very nice!)
6. HE FIGHTS FOR YOU.
Okay, personal story. This writer was visiting a hospital when his girlfriend was being harassed by a security guard and her couple of ilk. The nervousness was evident in her voice to ask where she was.
He was absolutely fierce. After being calm enough to navigate the hospital, this author stated that the dirtbags rolled up his sleeves and unevenly lit them. (Note, this happened in a foreign country - so some restraint was in order.) After the courtship pleas and arm flaws, we were all left untouched.
What ignited my anger? My woman's voice hurt. A stomach-dropper can only feel someone who loves someone else with an intestinal injury.
7. HE FIGHTS WITH YOU (YEP, YOU READ THAT RIGHT!).
This is obvious, but to avoid offending anyone - we are not talking about insults-throwing and drama-uncertainty fights. We are certainly not talking about physical changes.
He said, if a man loves you and is emotionally invested in his Relationship, he will start a "fight" to avoid losing you; Even if it means fighting with the woman he loves
Why? Because we are afraid. We love you, and we are equal to the punch even a little threat to our relationship. If we are fighting with this objective in mind, we want to make things work and demonstrate our commitment.
8. HE TREATS YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS WITH RESPECT.
If we know that someone is important to you, then by default, they become important to us. The reason is simple: you cherish family and friends, and we want the last thing to hurt your feelings.
